Right im recently single well since June and was with my ex for 12 years. Obviously my ex seen my body change during our relationship due to having children together. But now im so worried about my body. I was once a lovely toned uk 10/12 with curves in all the right places since having my children and being comfortable in my relationship i have put weight on mostly around my belly which sits above my section scar. i have loads of stretch marks , and my body isn't as toned as it was. But i look and feel amazing in clothes. I have lost over a stone to. And dropped two dess sizes so im now a big uk 14 to small uk 16.
Now would find that attractive?
I am a lovely kind hearted person who would do anything for anyone. I have amazing brown eyes and a lovely big smile.
I have been getting so much attention but from younger guys mostly around 21 22. Im absolutely petrified to put myself out there dating as i wouldn't want to be rejected coz of my body.
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Hi, pretty much everyone has or will get stretch marks of some sort so i wouldn't worry about that - trust me you're in the majority not minority. Guys will know that you've had children so the c-section scar won't be a surprise or an issue either. I think you just need to bump up your confidence and you'll be fine. For the first night with a guy just make sure you have excellent lighting - if you're worried about bright lights that reveal everything go for a salt lamp - they emit a nice soft glow like candlelight. Hope that helps!0