Sometimes I get the feeling it's so the girls can feel like they're the better person, like they're such a saint for putting up with such a jerk, "look at my big ass heart, I love this guy even though he's a giant fuckwad". "I'mma change this guy with the power of my magical healing vag!" Shit like that. Then they start to understand what being a jerk really does to you - slowly chip away at your self-esteem and stuff - and then it's tumblr and facebook posts galore, "real men blah blah blah, ride or die guy blah blah blah" like shit - where was this "real men manual" when you first started dating this jerk? :\
Read what others have commented, and mostly agree with what they're saying.
Having personally dated jerks in the past, I will just say that the person I was initially attracted to later revealed their true selves... And I eventually realized and got out. Those jerks you speak of are (generally) very insecure and it's almost like they're putting on an act for everyone.
I think it also has a little something to do with wanting something you can't have - or that it's a 'challenge'... I think that goes for men chasing women, too.
Don't be a jerk to get girls though. That method only works on girls that haven't been through the full experience of dating one. Eventually, it's the nice guys that win.
Because stupid people are more confident. They don't have the brains to second guess themselves or question anything. Sociopaths
Most girls aren't smart enough to realize that those guys do stupid ridiculous stuff not because they are confident but because they truly don't give a damn. They think it's exciting and most women rely on guys for excitement. Girls just sit and wait and want the guy to woo them and a jerk can do that since he doesn't care about anything
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