Seriously its so easy, I am really actually jealous. All you have to do is do your hair, wear some makeup and look good and guys will come up to you, if your attractive its even easier, and in both situations the women call all the shots. If the girl doesn't like the guys looks, they shut him down, if he doesn't seem confident enough shut him down, if he comes off too strong shut him down. There is no risk involved, women dont have to walk up and risk rejection, they dont have to pretend to be confident to get with some guy, they dont have to initiate anything in the relationship, they just sit there and let the guy do it all. In online dating women literally never have to send a single message, on tinder they just swipe a few good looking guys and have a bunch of messages from guys that they can then choose from. For us guys we never get messaged on tinder (I saw a figure that said 80 percent of conversations are started by men), we become just one of 10+ messages in a girls inbox, and the girl can just choose who she wants, thats so easy, she doesn't have to fire off 20 messages just to get a conversation with a guy, she just looks in her inbox and chooses the best one. Girls literally dont need to do anything but look good, and be able to hold a conversation. Guys have easy to understand standards: hot=good. Girls have such complicated standards that its hard for men. We have to be confident, but not cocky, funny but sometimes serious, we have to be willing to risk rejection, be able to take hits on our egos everytime we get shut down, we have to look good but can't spend too much time on our appearance because women prefer "personality" which is a vague thing that no one knows how to improve, its easy to be a woman. Just look hot, and hold a conversation and you get men. So freaking easy, dont need to risk rejection, dont have to do anything. Why do they have it so easy?
Most Helpful Girl
Why is it so easy to be a woman in the dating scene?
Likely because you have a skewed perception of what dating is like for gals. You appear to be overlooking that most gals options compromise of the guys that approach them. Gals sift through to find a desirable option while all of the guys options are desirable because they are what he wanted.
Also it seems gals want partners aka people while guys want sexual objects to bust a nut in or on. It seems much easier to be an object than a person.
"Girls have such complicated standards that its hard for men"
I agree the standards gals have are hard for guys because gals actually care about the guy being a worthwhile human being rather than just his looks. Having to be a decent appealing person seems to be quite complicated for many guys.3
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Most Helpful Guy
This is the way nature has intended it. Men are hunter-gatherers while women are selectors. Only the very best of the alpha males (such as myself) succee. This is to ensure reproductive fitness: we cannot have weakling beta males too scared to pursue the hunt spreading their faulty genes. This would be terrible for social evolution.2