I have been seeing this guy for 3 months but properly together for 2. He said he doesn't want to label it and he's not the type of person to put it on Facebook.. He does refer to it as a relationship and when I asked what he would say if someone asked if he had a girlfriend he would say that he's seeing someone. I've also met his family heaps and we are 'exclusive'. I know it's still early so I will give it time but I don't know if he means he would never want to label it or is just waiting to see if he definitely wants a relationship with me. Thoughts? What are reasons why a guy wouldn't want to label it? And how long should I let this go on for..
Most Helpful Guy
Bingo , with the update , all the rules got changed. He is being super cautious as to not get his heart invested until he know it won't be ripped out again. From what I have read you didn't say one way or the other how well you to blend so I will assume you both get along pretty well. With that being said I would say give it and him time to see that your in no way like his last girlfriend. When he get to the point that his worries / fears of a repeat encounter things will change4
Most Helpful Girl
I dont like labels only bc they are often superficial and people worry about the title over the content. everyone has a different idea of them. i prefer lists... like just tell me what you want in list and ill see what i can do ;p
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you have good stuff going on. not having a level wouldn't bother me bc i dont care or them, but its worth asking him WEHY it bothers him. only he can know., his unwillingness to explain it is what would bother me. not the fact he dopiest like it.0