My girlfriend of a month is giving me the silent treatment, didn't message me good morning like she usually does. Am I right for not messaging her either? I feel like if you have an issue you should address it and not just ignore me, I find it immature. Is this the right way to go about things as to not let her get used to getting what she wants?
Most Helpful Girl
So... she didn't message you "good morning" one time and you assumed the silent treatment has been initiated?
Err, did you assume this because she's an insane texter that messages every waking moment and religiously texts a "good morning" every day?
I mean, is it possible that perhaps she didn't have time to or simply forgot?
Silent treatments are stupid, but unless you're dating a texting maniac, it's a bit silly to assume she's ignoring you just because she didn't send one "good morning" text. :B
If she IS giving you the silent treatment, she's being ridiculous and should just tell you what's wrong. But if she simply didn't think it was that big of a deal, you're being overly dramatic.
In either case this relationship doesn't sound like a brilliant one, considering you're only 1 month in and there's already problems occuring over minor bullshit.0
Most Helpful Guy
why is she giving you the silent treatment?
yes it is immature. It's essentially a passive aggressive way to try and get what you want or make someone crawl to you. That said I don't think you should do the same. Two wrongs don't make a right so if she is being immature you being immature too doesn't make you right0