I'm an African American girl and my prefence is mostly white guys due to where I grew up and what appeals to me, though I've been single my whole life and have never been asked out. I wanted to know if most guys would or wouldn't date outside their race, even if the girl is amazing, cute and/or has a wonderful personality. And if you wouldn't why?
- Race doesn't matterVote A
- Wouldn't date outside my raceVote B
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White guy here. I am attracted to African-American women, but I used to be too intimidated to approach them, because of the whole racism sh*t. You probably aren't being approached because most white guys are going to assume you wouldn't be interested or would get mad about a white guy hitting on you. If you're going to date white guys, you're going to have to make it clear to them that you're available.
That said, there are also racists still running around loose in the U. S. A., so you have to watch out for them - it's a balancing act, and it would probably just be easier to date within your race - less risky.
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