Electronic communications don't count. It's when you are together that it counts. It's pretty clear that the problem is not you but the medium used. The only really important one is in person and he masters that one, Stop caring too much about the others. when you are not there, he has other things to care about. When he is with you, you have all his attention. That means you know you'll have his attention when it's important. I personally hate texting and being in contact all day. I love you, but I got shit to do. Tonight, we'll see each other and tell each other all that has to be said around a fire and a glass of wine.