Would you date a person with a kid if you dont have kids of your own?
Most Helpful Girl
No, never, for the same reason I wouldn't date someone who has gotten married before. HEAR ME OUT:
1. if it's an accidental pregnancy, someone who would not be smart enough to use contraceptions is coming nowhere near my vagina.
2. If not, I consider marriage and children the most sacred promise you can give someone in terms of relationships. I will never ever settle for being second best, there are many first times the exs in your life gets, sex, kiss, first house together etc. it's stupid to fuss over those, but is it wrong that I want to be that one and only wife and mother of your children?
If you can give away those vows so easily whats the point of marriage?
3 if the ex died then maybe I'll consider it, but still worried I'll be in the shadow of a ghost.1
Most Helpful Guy
If this girl was my dream girl, I would. Plus I love kids. I guess it also depends how many kids she has.
I wouldn't be able to date her at 20.. Id have to be in my mid to late 20s so I'm on my way to being financially set before I had a child in my life. I do hope this doesn't happen though.. I don't want to be still dating at that point in my life. I hope my dream girl comes around soon *gazes out window* 😂2