No, never, for the same reason I wouldn't date someone who has gotten married before. HEAR ME OUT: 1. if it's an accidental pregnancy, someone who would not be smart enough to use contraceptions is coming nowhere near my vagina.
2. If not, I consider marriage and children the most sacred promise you can give someone in terms of relationships. I will never ever settle for being second best, there are many first times the exs in your life gets, sex, kiss, first house together etc. it's stupid to fuss over those, but is it wrong that I want to be that one and only wife and mother of your children? If you can give away those vows so easily whats the point of marriage?
3 if the ex died then maybe I'll consider it, but still worried I'll be in the shadow of a ghost.
If this girl was my dream girl, I would. Plus I love kids. I guess it also depends how many kids she has.
I wouldn't be able to date her at 20.. Id have to be in my mid to late 20s so I'm on my way to being financially set before I had a child in my life. I do hope this doesn't happen though.. I don't want to be still dating at that point in my life. I hope my dream girl comes around soon *gazes out window* 😂
As someone who has kids (in a relationship with the father) if I'm out with friends, some guys still take an interest in me but as soon as I say that I have children they run for their lives! Not that I'm looking for anyone when I talk to them, I'm just being polite and friendly. I hope I'm never single 😣
Yeah it SUCKS to be with someone with KIDS.. WHen I was YOUNGER that was an IMMEDIATE TURN OFF and one of the FIRST questions I would always ask a guy if he had kids SEE YA!! Now I am with a guy we are older he and I have been friends only for like 15 years - he had kids so a COMPLETE turn off BUT I always thought he was SUPER nice and SUPER handsome SO finally I couldn't resist him PLUS his kids like him had kids YOUNG so they are married and gone so NOW I have been with him 6 years we will marry at some point but I would NEVER have gotten with him if I had to deal with KIDS as I CHOSE to NOT want or have kids ie be CHILDFREE happily!!! DONT DO IT at 24 you will HATE it plus they are young kids he and you would get STUCK with them on visitation.. GO find a CHILD FREE 24 yr old guy there are PLENTY!!!
See, I dated a guy with kids we were great until issues with the mom arise and she basically ruined our relationship. Also we were long distance have a look at my profile for further details it sucks I really liked him.
Ouch that's kind of hard core I don't think It would last very long. I believe in the original father being a father and being there for there kids even though he's divorced I can't replace the real father I don't think Its right.
I would rather someone who didn't have children if I'm being honest. Not so long ago I couldn't really see myself with someone who had kids at all and even now I'm not sure it would work. I am awkward around children and this would surely be a problem in any relationship with a mother. Also if the father was absent or a layabout would she expect me to fill the void? I'm fairly sure I don't want kids of my own, let alone somebody else's.
But then I could be missing out on something fantastic and you never know unless you try, so I wouldn't rule it out altogether.
-The father has to be paying some child support -The father has to be active in the kid's life -I won't take the role of the kid's new dad. However I won't mind being a role model -She must have one kid only -I won't be in charge of raising the kid
It depend on what i want out of the relationship. If i just want someone to hook up with then sure, why would i care if she has kids or not. If i was looking for a romantic partner to have fun with and take out, hell no. Im not taking care of anyones kids. I dont like kida, i dont like girls who have kids, really big turnoff. Where i live, girls whobare poor have kids. The girls who are looking or have good jobs, or is looking to get a lot out of life, have no kids so i really like that.