Can you actually be Inlove with someone if after 2 weeks of dating them you have already cheated on them
Most Helpful Girl
What people call 'love' is something subjective. Most will have different perspectives on the issue, and what love meas to them.
I've never cheated so couldn't say for sure what sort of relationship cheating has with love. However, I'd think they're pretty independent. In some cases, the cheater probably could really be 'in love' with their partner, despite the huge betrayal and all. In love, of maybe just infatuated, loving getting all that attention and their ego stroked. Cheating would have more of an affect of the dynamics of the relationship. If the one who got cheated on can bare to continue being emotionally invested in someone who lost their trust, and showed they may not be taking the relationship and any monogamy tied to it quite so seriously.5
Most Helpful Guy
Love is an action and a state of being. In the moment of cheating you cease to care about the emotions of your partner and proceed to indulge in it. To me that doesn't sound like a loving action. So I say no you didn't love them. You can change and begin to love your partner again but you made your actions and have no choice but to accept the resulting consequences. When you stop caring for the things important to you you often damage and lose them. That's just life. Deal with it. But to address your situation specifically just because your ex cheated on her current guy doesn't mean she wants you back or that she's still in love with you. She's your ex now. Focus on yourself and stop filling your life's holes with her. Trust me I've been there. Even if she comes back it won't be because she suddenly realized she actually loved you she'll only be coming back because she couldn't find something else. You'll feel like garbage and she'll treat you like garbage. Just let it go move on and go focus on you.2