Pretty simple question, i'm a transfemale, recently i've been getting dudes asking me out on dates and i go along and they dont have a clue im trans (they just see me as a cute girl). When should i tell them? I'm pre-op and was wondering when you would appreciate being told. I'm bi/pan so would be dating both males/females in my time. Should i tell before the first kiss? As soon as we meet? On the first date?
Also how would you like to be told? Just thought it'd be nice to see the general opinion on how to do it.
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I understand it's probably not easy for you to admit to but it's best to tell the truth early on. If that person doesn't wish to date a transwoman then it was never going to work out anyway. Even if they are open-minded about it they probably wouldn't appreciate you keeping it under wraps until you're well into a relationship. Honesty is the best policy here. I wish you well.3