Every piece of advice women read/get states that if a man is really interested in you they will pretty much do anything to talk/text/see you. So why do guys go hot and cold... blowing up your phone then silent. I will text someone and he will text back... then it may be 3-4 days before I hear from him. I don't want to be the one initiating things all the time, I don't want to bug them but I have noticed if I don't text he will text within a few days... what is up with this?
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Most guys do it because they are the ones initiating everything and they don't wanna seem desperate. So we'll text, wait for a reply, then wait more, and never get a reply from you.1