I like to think that I'm average when it comes to appearance but everyone keeps telling me I'm super hot and wondering why I've never had a boyfriend...
The thing is that I've had countless crushes and only acted on two of them and none of them worked out- they didn't like me back.
However, two guys asked me out through their friends and I'd turned them down because I didn't find them attractive.
I just feel like everyone is lying to me about my appearance because if I was really super hot then no guy would reject me, right?
Most Helpful Guy
I have seen plenty of beautiful women that did nothing for me sexually - wrong hair color, too tall, etc., especially concerning current movie stars/celebrities/singers none of whom turn me on in the slightest. I also have a very beautiful friend who met her current boyfriend at the beach when they both went there with their kids and started talking kid-stuff ; she related to me that when growing up, she had no boys asking her out, and I can attest that she is the proverbial 10 - her looks intimidated most men (by her admission and my ratification), so they were afraid to approach.
by the way when guys ask women out, we usually get rejected (I would assume 8 out of 10 rejections, and sometimes it seems that it's only rejection for months at a time), so just twice on your part is not bad. In my case the 4 or 5 women that have hit on me or asked me out, all got rejected, I didn't find any of them attractive according to my taste. This is how life is: it's not that we want what we can't have, but that what we like doesn't like us back (or hardly ever does).0
Most Helpful Girl
You being pretty doesn't mean everyone will like you. We obviously can't appeal to everyone. Each person has his own preferences. I mean, Justin Bieber is hot but I prefer men like Ian Sommerhalder. And it's not a bad thing you haven't got a boyfriend yet. Relationships when you're in your teens don't hold for too long anyway.1