Been dating exclusively for 4 months. He brought up the idea of being exclusive. However things hasn't been progressing and he said calling me his girlfriend is a huge step he is not prepared to and never had done with anyone before. He had been playing the field so he is the the 40 years of virgin guy you imagine him to be.
I I was about to give up but he cried and said he grew attached to me. I never knew he was I asked why he never told me? He said cos he is not the type of person who opens up to anyone. Not even to his best friend.
He he also said he is unsure of his will be long term. I said if you are my that into me o will move on. He then said he meant people around him all have failed marriage / relationships. That's why he has doubt we will last.
He said I'm the only girl who regularly spend time with him like sleeping over and cooking together. Everyone else were once a week thing.
I have met his friends but never has hung out with them. He has met some of my friends but never hung out either as he wasn't ready.
I I was going to cut my loss but his tears and his fear dos of others failed relationship made me having second thoughts.
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If you love something set it free. Walk away, if he really loves you he will find a way. He will call you and ask you to be his girlfriend. You deserve that.0