I'm very attractive but I never been asked out by anyone I'm interested in so I just have been asking out guys. I'm not as nervous about it as I use to be. I get butterflies and I'm excited when I do it but after I asked them out it gets dull. After a date or two the guys seem boring to me even if they are funny and we have things in common. Its weird. I lose a lot of interest right after I ask them out. And I feel less desired in a sense. I don't feel very feminine. -_- the guys are usually really nice. But I feel miserable.
Most Helpful Guy
that's normal, it happens to guys. when guys are the ones mainly taking the initiative, we like you at first, but then when we get to know you we come to a decision point, do we genuinely like you or not, and when we don't we lose interest. since you did the initiating you took place in our shoes. its not a bad thing, you're just trying on different clothes at the store. just keep doing what you want to do, remember, if you ask the guy out, you get to choose which guy you want to be with, not waiting for the right guy to choose you.2
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. I asked my boyfriend out, we're still together for almost 2 years and I obviously have not yet lost interest in him.
Maybe you should think if you really like the guy or not before asking him out, since it sounds like you're asking a new one out on the regular so... quality over quantity.2