I sure do and I am tired of it. I am getting afraid it will be like this forever.
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I think the worst thing when a person is single is all the questions they get about when they are going to get into a relationship. It just makes people feel even worse about their situation, especially if they are actively trying to find a partner.
I dislike being single. But sometimes it happens and there isn't much I can do about it when it does happen. Other than get back out there and try again.
I feel the same way as you in that I feel that sometimes I will be alone forever.
But I've been in an abusive situation before and I can tell you that it's far better to be single than in an abusive situation. You feel utterly helpless and there isn't much you can do other than leave. But sometimes you don't even have the option of leaving and you have to face the abuse every day. It really is a terrible situation to be in.
I was dating a guy who used to get mad and smash dishes if I didn't cook dinner for him and wait on him hand and foot. I would refuse regularly as it's not my job to wait on someone, I have a life too. Even if I am a guy's girlfriend, it's not my place to cook and clean for him 24/7. I also worked full time and was doing classes.
He would get upset if I took time for myself. So it just got really terrible. He would call me mean things and send me nasty messages while I was at work. It hurt my performance at work as well and I ended up losing my job.
I couldn't leave because I had no money and no where to go. Luckily we broke up and that helped a bit.2