- Really fast, just days44% (4)17% (2)29% (6)Vote
- 1-3 months11% (1)33% (4)24% (5)Vote
- 4-6 months22% (2)17% (2)19% (4)Vote
- 1 year0% (0)8% (1)5% (1)Vote
- 2+ years0% (0)25% (3)14% (3)Vote
- Never really get over someone23% (2)0% (0)9% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Well girls and guys go about it differently... for girls it hurts hard and is over fast. For guys it lasts long and its a more constant pain than anything.
Other factors hang in the wake of it as well such as:
-how long the relationship was
-how invested you were
-how you were treated
-how strong you were at the end
Personally my first 3 relationships were completely fine. the chick broke up with me in class and I didn't care one bit about it... she was more hurt that I didn't give a fuck than I was...
My last two were a bit more difficult the first one was 4 years long in an LDR she cheated and that took a toll which took about 4 mos to get over...
the my most recent of 3 years... I was incredibly invested... I was very hurt along the way... and I was incredibly weak at the end... I am now about a year and a half out... feeling fine, life has moved on, but of course something is still there and I imagine will always be there.0
Most Helpful Girl
in the past it'd be a very short period of time. hours, days, a month at most.
but if my current partner left me I'd be lost for a very very long time.0