what to do when you're in a long distance relationship and it has reached up the point where you guys talk lesser than usual and also when you guys are on a Skype call, there's nothing much to talk about... i feel so bummed over this but it seems completely fine on his side. i also find myself getting really annoyed and angry whenever i talk to him but my feelings for him grows everyday. I've never felt this way its so foreign to me. we've only been together for 2-3 months... i dont know what to do. any advice?
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It happened to me yes.
I am in a ldr for one year and a half i passed by a period like that where even when skyping we didn't have anything to say , i used to get angry thinking " why doesn't he put an effort to talk about anything? " " he doesn't love me anymore?" , i felt annoyed and whenever i talked to him he used to say : i am like that , not talkative. So i just solved it by myself i used to talk about anything really anything , a video i watched , a picture , my day and ask him what do u think or stuffs like that to make him talk. If he can not initiate the convo i obliged him to open his mouth and talk XD u should try that ^^
notice that maybe he is tired , when guys get tired they just stay quiet and u can talk and he listens to comfort him or smth , ask him what is wrong.. etc
if it doesn't work then u have to directly ask him why doesn't he talk that it annoys u and he should put on more efforts if he wants to preserve ur relationship and if he really loves u. i did that to my boyfriend kkk
Or another solution u may play game at same time , i mean multiplayer , watch a movie at same time or just a video , funny or anything that interessts u , u will have a good time and u will not struggle to find what to say ^^ until the situation gets better
If u want any other advice at any time i am here to help ^^
good luck ♡2
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