I'm a naturally curvy girl but recently I've put on a few extra pounds. I'm worried because I have a few dates coming up and I'm meeting a guy for sex and I'm not 100% sure that they know I'm not skinny. If I was skinny I feel like I wouldn't have to clarify it, but as I'm bigger I think that I should? Will it matter that I'm bigger?
Most Helpful Guy
it only matters if you've perhaps suggested that you are something you aren't to the dates and this guy you are planning on having sex with... being bigger isn't a matter as long as you are healthy but misrepresenting yourself (if you did) might matter to these guys2
Most Helpful Girl
Just be positive and confident. If you met them on a dating or hook up app and put down "Slim/skinny" body type, then that is bad and misleading. But if not, and they agreed then don't worry about it so much.2