I like this guy.. a lot. We have a bunch in common, he's super nice, sweet, handsome, non-judgemental, open-minded. He is seriously the whole package. It isn't just looks, its his personality and mannerisms. To be honest, I've never met any guy like him before. I'm not good at conversations but with him, it's different. We hung out more than once which it's always great. He usually always would text me first but hasn't ever since he went on vacation to Italy which he's there for a month with family.
He hasn't talked to me ever since 2 weeks ago, when he wished me a happy birthday etc. He said he will text and message me but hasn't. I can't stop thinking about him. I miss him a lot. Even if he doesn't like me in that way, my feelings won't change. I can't get him out of my head. I don't want to like him. I keep trying to tell myself and be logical, saying he is just some guy but my mind and heart trick me saying, "He isn't just some guy. He's perfect. "
Most Helpful Guy
Come on, I think you can be a little bit patient. I know he hasn't texted or messaged you but then you shouldn't outright assume anything like this. Have you thought about the possibility that he may also like you but isn't 100% sure about his feelings so maybe he is working on it at the moment or maybe he is occupied and is busy with something important? have you thought about this? I know it's strange that he hasn't messaged you but then what I am saying is also possible right?
Okay I understand he hasn't messaged you but then have you tried messaging him? if not just give it a try? I think you shouldn't lose hope so fast. He is a very nice guy after all, isn't it?0
Most Helpful Girl
Well first it sounds too good to be true.. Wish I could met a man that I was really feeling How long have u even known him? Is he single? He hasn't contacted you in two weeks? There with family. Hmm.. Im sure his phone works... Send him a text... A friendly one e. g. "hows your vacay going" If he's that good and makes you feel that type of way. You need to go after it girlire. You said you dont want to like him. But you do like him.. Ask yourself do you really want to stop falling for him? Im not convinced. But If you really want to stop falling for him. Then dont reach out to him after all. When/if he contacts you distance yourself a bit. Dont put all your focus on him. I know its hard when u really feeling a dude. But its all in your mind u have the power. Meet other men, start talking to someone else. Keep busy and tell yourself. he's just one man and that you Will meet another like him even better. You'll find somebody else you are really feeling.0