I hooked up with this guy that I met on okcupid. I enjoyed the sex and was very attracted to him. He said he came and that made me feel happy. Hopefully, that meant he was attracted to me? I have self confidence issues and do not find myself good looking at all. But I'm able to pull confidence off in front of others when I need to. I wasn't shy in front of this guy. I'm a skinny 21 year old girl. I have nice hair but I hate my face because it's not a regular gorgeous or pretty face. I've been called unique, exotic, etc. A guy did once call me beautiful and cute and I will cherish that moment forever! However, I've also had guys call me ugly when I was 12, and then when I was 20 this one guy expressed that he had feelings for me but later turned around and was different. Anyway, back to the amazing hook up. I was at his place for about 45 minutes, not too long. We both knew it was gonna be brief because he had plans and i had to be somewhere right after. Before I left, he said see you later. And then he said "text me sometime". Guys, would you say this to a girl you weren't attracted to? Do you think he meant that as an invitation to talk to him again? I haven't texted him after the hook up because I don't want him to think I'm desperate or clingy, even though I so want to text him. But I'm not gonna! Also, how do I stop myself from falling for him? Because, he's all I can think about. Help! I really just wanna be his friend because I think he's really interesting and I like his personality. Also, I really enjoyed going down on him and would happily do it again if he wanted me to. He didn't go down on me. The sex was a little messy cause I was bleeding. So yeah. Should I text this guy sometime? I was thinking about waiting 2 weeks or maybe a month to text him. Or should I not text him at all? Maybe he doesn't want to ever hear from me again. I don't know what to do!
Guys, This guy said "text me sometime" after we hooked up?
Oh and he told me prior to the hookup that he isn't wanting to be in a relationship right now. So this is all just sex pretty much.
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