As the title says my question is about a girl I met approx. 2 months ago.
We first had 2 double dates with some friends and shortly after we had our first and second date. On the latter we made out for about an hour and all went quite well.
She already told me of severe headaches that tortured her until recently ( before she had a operation). I am 100% certain she is legit about it.
I tried to set up a date after one or two weeks and she was completely devastated about some test results but didn't want to tell me in detail. Few weeks passed and our last date was about a month ago.
So I asked her if she had time but was disappointed. Apparently she had had some kind of heavy migrane attack and said that she could not burden me with her condition and the whole trouble. I tried to persuade her to open herself but she pushed my away even further and was close to ending it.
I really like her and would be happy if I could make her my girlfriend.
So what am I supposed to do?
P. S.: huge thanks if you made it through this incoherent ramble. Also excuse the spelling, German autocorrect.
Most Helpful Girl
you can't force her to be ur girlfriend
i think she is more worried about her health now than having a relationship
god know what the girl is going through
i would say leaver her alone for a while and if you are that much interested in her contact her again later to see how it goes.
don't you have any mutual friends or smthg? to see what is really going on with her?0