I'm year 9 and I'm 14 and I like this guy who is in year 12 but he's only 16.
I really want to get to know him better but I don't think he'd go for me seeing as there is a 2 year age gap and 3 year school age gap
as I'm in the youngest high school year and he is in the second oldest.
What should I do?
also he's kind of shy so I don't know how to start trying to get his attention
we've talked quite a few times and we catch the same bus but other than that I don't know what to say
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Most Helpful Girl
older guys are where the best dates are! Start saying hi to him all the time, sit with him at lunch, find a reason to stand next to him waiting for the bus and sit next to him or behind him on the bus.
16 yo guys can be shy like you said and you, as the girl, need to take the lead coz he is/will be oblivious to the fact that you like him.
I bet he is a nerdy guy... to me, they are more fun to date than jocks! Trust me, I know... every nerd I dated, proved good things come in nerdy packages...2
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