Okay, so neither me or the guy I like have text for a week. Is it alright if I text him tonight? Or should I never be the first to text? Do guys even care? Any advice would be great. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong here.
Can I text him first?
What Guys Said 5
I would love it if a lady reached out to me via text. It shows that she is interested and thinking about me. I don't see anything wrong with this.
But I am also a traditional/chivalrous kind of guy and still want to be the one who asks the lady out on an official date. That is the only thing I would hope she doesn't do to me.
Other than that go for it. It sounds like you guys have already been communicating, so go for it and don't worry about it. If he doesn't like it than he isn't right for you. Always remember to be yourself so you can find the guy you are meant to be with.1
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If you want to text him then go text him. F those dumb rules..1
Personally I hate it if we've been talking for a few weeks and I'm only getting responses, but she never initiates a conversation. I see it as disinterest.
I recently just stopped talking to 2 girls bc I stopped initiating and they never did.1
Fucking text him. Jesus.0
What Girls Said 5
You should texto him, he can't be the one to always start a conversation. It feels the same you're feeling right now.
But if he's the one that don't answer in the middle of a good conversation without a decent explanation more than one time then don't text him. If he doesn't care as much as you care about him, move on girl.
You should text him. Maybe he's thinking the same thing you are. Just be confident and go for it. there's nothing to lose in simply wanting to talk to someone1
Just do it.0
just text him already!!0
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