I mean many messages or days do you talk for before exchanging numbers or deciding to meet up and so on.
A question for those who've used OkCupid, how long do you talk before escalating?
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Well personally for me i like to talk to them using the instant chat feature so you can talk and respond instantly, rather than sending messages everyday because you can get more of a sense of their personality if you are having a back and forth real time chat. If we have had a good real time chat then i would be happy to arrange to meet them after that because i don't see the point of hanging around the site endlessly talking to them like a pen pal. Once you have established that they can hold a conversation and you think that there's a chance you might get along then there is no reason to wait. Waiting too long also builds up false expectations because you can't get to know the full breadth of their personality and the only way your going to know if there is chemistry is to meet them. So sooner is better than later in my book.0
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