No, never! Be yourself. If the other gender doesn't like you, well, they're missing out on a lot. "You respect yourself too much. You think too highly of yourself. You’re unapproachable. You’re cold." Those are all things I hear about others these days... People, stop being judgmental! You shouldn't regret the way that you are. I don’t waste my time. I don’t waste time on people that have no ambition. I don’t waste time on guys that can’t hold a door open or pull out a chair. Is it wrong that I think I deserve respect at all times? If I don’t lower my standards and my expectations will I end up alone like everyone says? Maybe. But maybe I’ll end up with somebody that loves and respects me the way I know I deserve. Maybe I’ll end up happy. Maybe you’ll wish you didn’t settle.