Girls, Should I lower my standards?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • No, never!
    Be yourself.
    If the other gender doesn't like you, well, they're missing out on a lot.
    "You respect yourself too much.
    You think too highly of yourself.
    You’re unapproachable.
    You’re cold."
    Those are all things I hear about others these days...
    People, stop being judgmental!
    You shouldn't regret the way that you are.
    I don’t waste my time.
    I don’t waste time on people that have no ambition.
    I don’t waste time on guys that can’t hold a door open or pull out a chair.
    Is it wrong that I think I deserve respect at all times?
    If I don’t lower my standards and my expectations will I end up alone like everyone says? Maybe.
    But maybe I’ll end up with somebody that loves and respects me the way I know I deserve.
    Maybe I’ll end up happy.
    Maybe you’ll wish you didn’t settle.

    Hope this helped :)

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    • Well I am shy and and maybe people mistake my shyness for arrogance.

    • Nah, just because you're shy, doesn't mean you're arrogant.
      Take what I say with a grain of salt, as I'm no expert on relationships but I'll just share what I've observed and reasoned.
      I think it would be best to understand that there are pros and cons to each relationship.
      What it requires is work and communication within the relationship to keep it running smoothly no matter what your temperament or personality.

What Girls Said 9

  • Nobody should ever lower their standards. Why settle for something? Not fair to the other person in my opinion.

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  • for what reason? u must have a reason.

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  • Lol that depends on how high your standards were in the first place, and how many people can possibly meet them.

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  • depends, what are your standards?

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  • for what reason? and never! your standard is yourself

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  • Golden Rule: Never lower your standards!!! I know this first hand... you'll never be happy in life.

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  • i lowered my standers and didn't improve nothing my love life is stil none existing

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  • Nope. Never lower your standards for anyone. Keep your self worth up.

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  • lt depends how desperate you are really.

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