Yes it has happened to me with girls. I get to like them and have feelings for them and when they do something that hurts my feelings I really hate them for it and hold a grudge.
I have. I think it's because i hate the fact that I'm notbwith them. Then I hate them for not liking me the same way. Then I hate myself fornliking them so much and I get mad at my mind and wish i could control who i like. Thats just my 2 cents