So i'm a 20 year old guy, and i'm still a virgin. I don't really have trouble being with girls, i date every now and then but i don't let the relationship get too intimate because i'm a bit insecure with my body. I workout daily and my body isn't that bad, except for some minor belly fat and love handles, well anyway, i'd like to wait until i have the body of my dreams to be able to get intimate with a girl, i want to be able to take off my shirt and have her say wow, i know this sounds really superficial and vain but it would be something that would pick up my confidence more than anything. Do you think i'm just being silly and should get it over with or is my vanity within reason?
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Yes and no
If you're insecure about something, then it's okay to wait a little, take your time and look for a solution.
But... if for example I like you and you like me. We become exclusive
Then I'd want you to tell me what's up, and I want to see it for myself.
What if the girl accepts you for who you are as a whole?0
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