Well I'm not really extremely stupid but I do struggle in school and it may get in the way of me going to college or not since my grade and gpa is so low. I've always been more attracted to guys who were into Science and English and could hold an argumentive conversation since I'm interested in that. But I feel like a lot of guys are more into pretty, confident girls who have good grades and are in cheerleading or a sport.
They may be fine with dumb girls for just sex, but, for relationships, guys want women they can hold conversations with. It is good if they can teach her things and that she's not a so-called know-it-all, but she should still contribute intellectually in some way.
We love dumb girls. I would really like having someone I can explain my work to. Someone who would ask me all sorts of questions and expect me to have an answer. Its just an ego boost! I know its selfish but its the truth.
I don't consider a woman that doesn't excel academically as being 'dumb' (I prefer the word stupid). I consider a stupid woman to be a women who do thinks and never stop to think about what they are doing and the impact their poor decision has not only on themselves but on the people around them.
Take an old school friend of mine that has multiple pregnancies scares from random men and has lost several teeth due to rubbing cocaine on her gums. She was academically competent.
I don't care how smart she is, as long as she falls somewhere between "braniac" and "airhead". Although, if she was at the lower end, she might not understand half of the things that come out of my mouth. If she can put up with it, i can put up with it.
I prefer girls who I enjoy spending time with, someone I can have fun with. Being smart or dumb has nothing to do with that. Sure being smart can be a bonus if you're dating a smart guy, since you might have a broader amount of subjects to talk about, but it shouldn't be a huge factor.
Not my personal choice, no. I cannot deal with people who simply cannot understand what i'm talking about. Still, i don't think you're dumb. Dumb people's conversation skills usually cannot go beyond simple gossip.
I think smart people avoid smart people, i am smart but lazy and my notes aren't the greatest. I find intellectual people boring but I think anyone with enough interest in something can be appealing. I fell better when I am with not too smart people, but I wouldn't say it would be something that could influence if you like someone or not. I you can share time with someone and have fun, time itself will say if someone likes you or not.
I confide myself smart , but I don't like dumb girls actually but it's like a deal breaker to me but not because u aren't good at school that means u r stupid actually Einstein was bad at school school measure ur memory not ur intelligence
I prefer a woman who treats me well and is as invested in the relationship as I am, smart is nice but mean many times comes with it.
I prefer someone I find intelligent so we can more stimulating conversations. By the way, not having high grades in school doesn't make you dumb.
I think most guys would prefer a woman they can have intelligent conversations with. Although, just because someone doesn't get perfect grades in school doesn't actually mean they are dumb. Everyone has different strengths, weaknesses, and people learn in different ways. Meaning, having poor or good grades in school doesn't always accurately represent a person's capabilities and how smart they are.