I set up date with a 'guy' online. Finally we were meeting up- he said he could pick me up. Usually when a guy says that, they'll come ot your place, you might talk for a little bit- like chat and get to know each other then leave. It wasn't the safest option- mostly for me but b/c he was in the same field i was in workwise, and worked at the same company I used to work at, i trusted he wasn't dangerous. He came to my driveway and asked me if I wanted to come outside--get in his car. Obviously, not yet. I said first if he can come and we can talk for a bit. He acted REALLY weird about that--as if it was a BIG deal. I live in a nice neighborhood and a nice house and im a pretty petite female. this guy was some big semi black guy acting all weird- either hispanic/black or something. he was acting SO scared? wtf...
It took him convincing just to come to my door to chat with me--he was acting so scared... im confused. I had to force him to come to my door, then he woudln't come inside. Then he said "he was trying to be respectful." I said.. well it's better if you just step inside--i mean right inside the door even... wtf was the problem? He said "well maybe we can chat on the phone more, or do this another time"... im like huh? or "go to a public place" (we were going to go to a movie). I said... you wanted to pick me up, a total stranger and take me in your car- that's not safe? But you're scared to come inside my house.. I'm a professional person who is attractive with a nice place to live... and this weirdo was acting like a paranoid freak. Why was he acting this way? i dont think he was scared of coming inside... he was scared of something else- like either intimidated who knows... but seriously.. was he just a retarded moron? I can get if it was 'shady', bad neighborhood, weird scenario, i was weird or something... im a beautiful girl, nice suburban house, nice neighborhood... i have pets... neighbors were outside... it was very ODD how he was acting creeped out and shady
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