i don't get this- most men worship pretty celebrities- or think they're so hot, but when they meet a woman as hot in person, they're usually mean or rude to her. Is there a reason for this?
how do men view really pretty women- do they seem them as people they just kind of 'admire' from far but think they're out of their league or have no real chance with them? Do they see these pretty women like they see celebs too--hot but unattainable? Do men just never go for pretty women but usually go for others and also im wondering do they just hate them because they think the woman is too good for them? im a pretty woman and most guys are really passive aggressive and mean to me, but they'll be staring at a pic of a female celebrity and say "she's so hot and that guys' lucky"... im thinking, but u had a chance with me and treated me like crap?
im wondering how men perceive hot women and if they just see them as people they admire but never try to get with
Most Helpful Guy
I'm never passive/aggressive with anyone. I view them as out of my league/resentful if I try to chat them up, probably taken. I go out of my way to basically ignore them entirely. The few times I have broken this rule I have had hell to pay, either because she was bat-shit crazy (for example had a crush on me and told my girlfriend to her face that she was going to take me into the bathroom and fuck me) or because the vitriol she poured out on me just for saying hi made it so not worth doing it again. Even two times different hot friends, eventually they would display body language that they thought (incorrectly) I was leering or ogling her boobs (I'd known them both about two years before those incidents). One of those times she had on a new crucifix and I was trying to look at the design - in that case we abruptly stopped being friends entirely, and in the other case, she had just done a stage act and was peering down at me from the raised theater area, and in looking up at her she "judged" me as having stared at her low-cut dress that 500 other people had already been staring at, as if to say "YOU don't have the right, you, a person who has helped nurture my career with your support - but a crowd of people I don't know at all can do it." by the way it would have literally been impossible to make eye contact without noticing her boobs, she is an E size. Men are guilty always in that kind of person's eyes. I have taken that ammunition away from hot women for good.
Just not worth it ever, and if you or someone you know is a legit nice hot girl, I am sorry for what you're going to go through. I am never going to accuse any hot chick of being like my example women for the reason you all really don't exist to me anymore. I am not the only man that feels this way. There are more of us than you could think.1
Most Helpful Girl
This is something I've definitely wondered.
I think it is because many men have been rejected by women they were attracted to, and now associate all attractive women with being stuck-up bitches.
They also tend to assume you get lots of attention, and they think they don't really compare to the other "hotter" guys that might talk to you, and that makes them angry, bitter, insecure, etc.
By acting out in some way, they are trying to regain the control that they felt they lost.1