Alright, I have to get some input on this. Why is it that I meet a guy, we hang out, keep it very nonchalant and simple. We enjoy spending time together, he would contact me daily via text or phone calls. Calls me baby and all other terms of endearment. Says he WANTS to spend time with me, etc and yes we have sex occasionally. He tells me I'm awesome, have a kind and loving heart, and he cares very much for me... BUT... he says he just wants to be really good friends and doesn't want to hurt me. He's not the right guy for me, I deserve better, blah blah blah. And then when I tone down the affection so not to fall for him deeper than I have, I get asked "Why are you acting different?" Dude WTH? I mean, I get it. You don't want a relationship with me, fine. But you can't expect me to "keep the status quo" going if I know there is no future for us. And another thing, why should I be ok with him sleeping with other women but if I sleep with another guy, he gets all bent out of shape?
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Double standards. He wants you to sleep with him exclusively, but he is free to sleep with every chick encounters his path. Also, he doesn't have feelings for you, he is only using you for sex. That's why he doesn't want you to get attached to him.0