So I love this girl so much do not get me wrong, but its so ridiculous like she is allowed to be as pissed off as possible at me, but if she even senses I'm mad she goes on a rant about how its bs that I'm mad and she can't be with me all this other stuff. Like tonight she promised me she would hang out with me and was talking about it all this morning, and then she texts me like 2 hours before saying she got invited out and wanted to go. So I brought up she promised we would see each other, and naturally like any guy would be I was very disappointed and I stopped texting her. So she calls me and tells me I'm treating her differently because I'm not texting her and how its bs. I'm tired of this like I love her but I'm still frustrated and at this point I feel like I'm being forced to text her and if I don't the wrath of God will strike. What can I do? I still want to be with her and I don't want to loose her.
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"I still want to be with her and I don't want to loose her" Well thats the problem. She knows you want her and obviously she doesn't really care all that much about you so she has the upper hand. She will manipulate you until you walk away. As long as you want this relationship more then her you will continue to make concessions for every one of her actions and whims. She will continue to do as she pleases then guilt trip you into allowing it with out ramifications. This is a very bad situation and honestly you need to walk away, permenantly. She obvioulsy doesn't care about you as you do her and thats just going to cause you more and more pain as time progresses. If you really want to make it work give her an altamatum and have her descide what to do but do not allow yourself to be manipulated.1