It's the last year of school and after school I'm probably going to travel a bit and later move to the capital city. I am a virgin and I've never even had a guy trying to hit on me. (I sometimes think that I get hit on but then I see that I was so wrong lol). I'm very lonely and I would like to have someone close (who doesn't, but still). Since I'm moving out of town almost immediatly after school I'm afraid that I'm not going to get the chance to have a boyfriend or a fling until I'm like 25. What should I do to get guys to notice me more so that they would approach me?
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I can't tell you much since I don't know what you look like or act like when you go out, I can however give you a few tips and maybe they will help
1. Sometimes guys tend to not approach the really pretty girls since they are intimidated and think it would be a waste of time, they will never get a yes from that hot girl they think so they go for her friends, if you really are pretty maybe you are too good looking and intimidate the guys, try dressing in something casual like tank tops and shorts and see what happens
2. Your attitude is important, if you look stuck up, unapproachable, bored or like you would rather be anywhere else you probably won't attract anyone.
3. Sometimes, depending on the crowd, the girls that seem to get the most attention are usually the girls who smile at the guys and look inviting, at other times it's the ones who look sexy and act sexy, it really depends on the place and the people in it.
4. It's the 21st century, not the 1950s before women's liberation so you don't need to wait for a guy to ask you to dance or for your number, you can ask the guys if you want to so you might want to be the one who makes that first move for a change, see a guy you like? Go ahead and just say hi and buy him a drink and talk to him, you never know what'll happen if you don't try.0