So if I hadn't asked if he was married and assumed since he asked me that he has values... Would I be guilty of sleeping with or even dating a married man? What is my role in making sure he is ok to date? I figured he checked to see if I was married he must respect marriage. So I didn't ask till later but still before accepting a date.
You just always have to ask the married question. You can go for it by asking things like "Do you have any roomies? Ever been married?" Even when you straight up ask they'll lie to you, so you just have to do your best :c