I guess it's an odd question, but I want to know how others think. What I mean by this is: how do you pick who you ask out?
With me, the girl has to be pretty for me to ask her out/her ask me out, and then to go on the second date, she needs to have a good personality.
A. K. A., I'm a spoiled brat :D
How do u know who u want to ask out?
- Personality ONLY. Looks don't matter!21% (11)10% (5)16% (16)Vote
- It's all in the looks! S/he could be horrible!2% (1)8% (4)5% (5)Vote
- In between75% (40)73% (36)75% (76)Vote
- Other2% (1)9% (4)4% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say it's about a ratio of 80 - 20. Personality is hugely important. If we don't get on and we can't communicate and we don't have the same kind of goals in life, then it's not going to work at all. And I'm not interested in casual dating, if I date, then I'm dating to get into a relationship and that relationship is ideally long-term. That's my dating plan if anything goes wrong with my current partner. So obviously, us matching well in terms of personality is kinda vital.
However, attraction is also important in its own way. If I'm not attracted to this other person, then I can't force myself to be with them. Whether they're my type or whether they're conventionally attractive isn't what's important, but they do have to be attractive in my opinion. If there's nothing about them that I find attractive then, unfortunately, our relationship won't work out.0
Most Helpful Guy
when just meeting her/hanging for the first time my check list for any girl i see as potential partner is 1. pretty face 2. i look at personality traits like is she chill, shy, funny, outgoing, confident smart? 3. look at the bad personality traits like is she loud and obnoxious, ignorant, stuck up? 4. does she smell good? 5. does she seem like she's feeling my vibe or am i feeling hers? 6. does she seem better off as a one of the guys type of girl, just down to smash, or one worth dating? 7. pretty feet is a must... most times.
if its someone that was already in my social circle it would be. 1. would it damage or effect the dynamic of our social circle?, 2. is she as invested as i am or more? 3. if it goes south will it be worth losing this friend.
then you have the one who are just more freaky, touchy, and in the moment which the only check list i have is she pretty and can i use being drunk as an excuse? personality gets flown out the door when i notice a girl is all over me and i got some potential pussy and honestly this even goes for the girls who even have bad labels such as sluty, trashy, and ratchet. if they are all over me and I'm drunk and turned on enough personality gets thrown out the door, labels are overlooked, and i have to be attracted to her in some way1