So the guy I've been seeing for a little over a year just told me there was a period where he was seeing another girl for about 2 months. I asked him why and he said he thought I was also seeing other people. I told him no and he apologised profusely. He then acted more touchy feely and extra nice to me for the rest of the night/morning.
I don't think he's gonna see anyone else anymore because he agreed that he shouldn't have and because he was so sorry.
I think this is a lack of communication and it will be hard for me to trust him completely for a while. I don't want to stop being with him.
We had never defined our "relationship" so I understand how he could see other people as we're not "together". We go on dates and I've met most of his family. I didn't tell him how I felt (that I actually like him) and didn't ask all the questions I wanted to about her& him. Can I bring it up again or is it assumes that I have forgiven him because we kissed and cuddled after?
Just want other people's opinion on this please.
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I had the same thing happen - he apologised profusely then after that resented me because he wasn't free to spread his seed so I ended up ditching him anyway. By the sounds of your question he is going to get another chance anyway but don't ever let him have a third or he will see you as a doormat.0
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