So I really like this girl at work , we have gone out a few times to eat. and to a concert she invited me to. and even to her house a couple of times to hang out and honestly I thought it all went fairly well. We also regularly " work late" and hang out and talk after every one leaves the offfice
Anyways I am extreamley shy and I am really not sure how to escalate our relationship into one of a romantic nature. I happen to be out of the office this week on business and I thought it would be nice for me to send her flowers, she often buys flowers for the office so I have a good idea of what she likes.
thoughts? opinions? is this a bad idea?
so I sent the flowers, I didn't get any sort of reaction from her that kinda sucks... : big sigh:
I mean, this coworker of mine gave me roses... red ones at that, and he was in an open relationship. ANd then he gave me wildflowers. BAsically, he was saying he was interested but he was leaving it up to me to make the next me..(i think?)
Didn't you see the episode of Gotham where the Riddler buys Ms. Kringle flowers?
What you need to do is steal a kiss from her when you're working late. And obviously you can't do that yet. You need to get comfortable touching her. Next time she passes a paper to you casually touch her hand.