I feel REALLY uncomfortable cold approaching random girls in the store or on the streets (being Indian and stereotyped badly doesn't help either).
bars and clubs are also not good ways for me to meet career minded women who also enjoy being social/in shape/having hobbies like gaming or Netflix.
online dating does NOT work if you are Indian.
I even tried to make platonic female friends, but most girls my age (23) are looking for their ideal mate, and could care less about having guy friends. speaking from experience, when a girl cut me off when I just wanted to be friends with her.
most girls I do see are too busy to talk (on their phones), too close minded to meet new people, not my age, or not quality girls.
also, I live in a male dominated town, known for its engineering jobs, so there are more men than women here. there are 4 guys for every girl. and there is severe competition for women.
all my friends live too far away, or are busy with work and their own relationships.
I also work 60 hours a week, and have no free time once I get home, to meet people or even for gaming or gym or Netflix.
I prefer a group setting (like a class or a club, like I would in college).
so, how'd I meet people, given my limited time, competition, venue/meeting preferences, limitations, race, and how people are around me?
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It's shithouse mate. Spend your money and show confidence. I find it best not to worry and just have a good time. Be confident and be yourself. If that doesn't work who cares as long as you are enjoying yourself. Sometimes it will work and sometimes it doesn't.0