I introduced myself to a guy at my college, and he asked me over for coffe (in his dorm room I think). Is that like a date or is it just a casual get to know each other and it's nothing special?
Most Helpful Guy
I went to many, many coffee house with many girls, never considered it a date, just a neutral place to talk to each other.
My wife and me will both meet someone in a coffee house without even thinking about date, romance or sex.
If he invites you in his dorm room, it's possibly less innocent.
Most Helpful Girl
More casual, if it was a date I think you would go out in public for it, in my opinion0