Most Helpful Guy
You are the exact target that I'm aiming for when I go out. Guys do get rejected a lot no matter who they are! I'm good looking, good job etc too and I get rejected sometimes even when I think I hit a home run! But it doesn't bother me at all... Even though these days I just kick back and flirt with "lesser" women and let the Good ones seek me out more! ;)4
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Most Helpful Girl
Your profile says 20. ... and your grammar is bad... o_o
Being desperate will only help you stay single forever :D!
so... RE lax! ... but act!
.. because by 30 most guys are already with someone... However, do not despair! there are also many men just like you, who think they won't find someone.. there are more than you think! you just have to look available and approachable for men to actually acknowledge you..
There are also those who have already been in a relationship and are single now because things didn't work out with their previous partner... but most of those already have kids... which is not necessarily bad, but it's not really "ideal"...
Here's one thing I have seen many people do.. in these desperate situations... they join a church and become members of some type of religion... and they find their partner there... I mean, that sounds awful, because it's like using a "sacred belief" for your own advantage... but if it helps you be happy? And i'm not suggesting you do that.. just something i've seen...
What I would recommend is to join activities with others where you get to meet people, and don't be afraid for you to be the one to approach... it doesn't always have to be the guy who does it.. just do it! :D!
*try not to be stuck inside a room online, cause that is probably the reason why you're still single. Most people find their partners at work, what's wrong with your work? ... if nothing works, i would say try online, but you really have to be careful with all the liars and fakes. I just recently found out my aunt is talking to some guy online and she's too old to realize that all his photos are the same face cropped into different photo scenarios... when I saw it I was like :o! it scared me and thought to myself.. 'what idiot would believe these are real photographs?' it was really creepy.. So be cautious if you try that.1