You are the exact target that I'm aiming for when I go out. Guys do get rejected a lot no matter who they are! I'm good looking, good job etc too and I get rejected sometimes even when I think I hit a home run! But it doesn't bother me at all... Even though these days I just kick back and flirt with "lesser" women and let the Good ones seek me out more! ;)
Your profile says 20. ... and your grammar is bad... o_o
Anyway! Being desperate will only help you stay single forever :D! so... RE lax! ... but act! .. because by 30 most guys are already with someone... However, do not despair! there are also many men just like you, who think they won't find someone.. there are more than you think! you just have to look available and approachable for men to actually acknowledge you..
There are also those who have already been in a relationship and are single now because things didn't work out with their previous partner... but most of those already have kids... which is not necessarily bad, but it's not really "ideal"...
Here's one thing I have seen many people do.. in these desperate situations... they join a church and become members of some type of religion... and they find their partner there... I mean, that sounds awful, because it's like using a "sacred belief" for your own advantage... but if it helps you be happy? And i'm not suggesting you do that.. just something i've seen...
What I would recommend is to join activities with others where you get to meet people, and don't be afraid for you to be the one to approach... it doesn't always have to be the guy who does it.. just do it! :D!
*try not to be stuck inside a room online, cause that is probably the reason why you're still single. Most people find their partners at work, what's wrong with your work? ... if nothing works, i would say try online, but you really have to be careful with all the liars and fakes. I just recently found out my aunt is talking to some guy online and she's too old to realize that all his photos are the same face cropped into different photo scenarios... when I saw it I was like :o! it scared me and thought to myself.. 'what idiot would believe these are real photographs?' it was really creepy.. So be cautious if you try that.
Nah actually there are plenty of single guys over 30. Most guys dont even get married until after 30
Its hard for women to get guys when they hit 30 though. You just have to try harder, use your resources efficiently. Be where they are.. communicate... talk and get involved. Eventually one will bite. At this point its a numbers game unless you have a very big network of friends.
All the men who are unmarried, good looking, and basically worth dating over 30?
They can date 23, 25, 26 year olds. Or if you believe the girls on this site, 18 year olds. And when such men date younger, not only do they usually get a cuter woman but she looks up to him more and is more attracted to him.
Funny, I find there are 3 types of men in their 30's (this is just my generalisation) 1) the guy who is content with settling down and is probably taken and married. 2) the guy who has given up and couldn't be bothered, usually ugly or socially arkward, which wouldn't be for you, or guys like me who are not contempt with settling down and are playing the field at this age. So I would definitely date you but I will have other options going and wouldn't commit.
Put aside the standard rule that guys should be the one to ask first, It's archaic. I personally don't know a single guy that would say no if he is attracted to her. If you're a working professional like a lot of us are, then it can take forever and time is of the essence. If you like someone, then go get em'. 👍🏼 🏁💨
There are single men older than you, but far less than there are younger than you. But there are lots.
As men get close to 30 and move beyond though, they tend to start dating down, not occasionally, but always, at least if they're decent looking and have a decent job. Your main target market is likely not 30 year olds, but 35-40 year olds.
Where are they? Online, or after work bars that cater to successful professionals are the easiest spots.
Good looking and successful late 30's guys are not scared to ask women out.
Guys who are poorer than you might be.
Guys who don't want to settle down may avoid 30 year old women altogether and go for mid 20's. Guys who are late 30's and looking to settle down are looking for women exactly your age. You are at an age where you probably need to be clear whether you're looking for serious (i. e. if things work out, kids and marriage) or just fun.
Why do they HAVE to be older than 30? Seems a bit superficial
i marry you. i'm 27.
Eh. That's what happens to girls who take the "modern woman" thing too far.