If someone has kids from a previous relationship/marriage, is it a deal breaker for you (poll)?
And you are?
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Updates: Most Helpful Guy
deal breaker to actually date but if she wants to come over after 11 pm for some fun then thats ok. or if i can sneak in through her back window when her kids are asleep that too is also fine. I've been in these situations before and i try my hardest to keep it about sex and to never meet her children.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't ever want kids so it would depend on if they're grown or close to grown, if they are then I would date them still.
What Guys Said 4
2 of my three step kids were above 18 when I married their mother and the other was 17.
I cannot accept another man's children. I don't have to !
Not that I won't mind, but it wouldn't be an absolute dealbreaker.
I'm hardly able to take care of myself, and can't even really stand kids so yes, it's a deal breaker I can't raise a kid EVER.
What Girls Said 6
Here's the thing. I am saving myself for my husband. I expect he do the same.
So if he has a kid... he kind of miserably failed step one in making me view him as relationship potential.
At this point in my life, it would be, yes. I'm not ready to be a mother basically, especially to kids that aren't mine. It would be too weird.
Yep, that's a huge dealbreaker for me.
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