If someone has kids from a previous relationship/marriage, is it a deal breaker for you (poll)?

  • Yes - dealbreaker
    58% (22)50% (13)55% (35)Vote
  • Don't mind
    42% (16)50% (13)45% (29)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy

  • deal breaker to actually date but if she wants to come over after 11 pm for some fun then thats ok. or if i can sneak in through her back window when her kids are asleep that too is also fine. I've been in these situations before and i try my hardest to keep it about sex and to never meet her children.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't ever want kids so it would depend on if they're grown or close to grown, if they are then I would date them still.

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    • Your comments are little bit different.

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    • Haha that's manageable!! Can you explain me how girls lie? Lol

    • lol well almost everyone lies but I think girls lie about how they really feel because they seek approval more.

What Guys Said 4

  • 2 of my three step kids were above 18 when I married their mother and the other was 17.

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  • I cannot accept another man's children. I don't have to !

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  • Not that I won't mind, but it wouldn't be an absolute dealbreaker.

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  • I'm hardly able to take care of myself, and can't even really stand kids so yes, it's a deal breaker I can't raise a kid EVER.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Here's the thing. I am saving myself for my husband. I expect he do the same.

    So if he has a kid... he kind of miserably failed step one in making me view him as relationship potential.

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  • At this point in my life, it would be, yes. I'm not ready to be a mother basically, especially to kids that aren't mine. It would be too weird.

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  • it is, yeah.

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  • Not in the slightest.

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  • Yep, that's a huge dealbreaker for me.

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  • They are blending

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