We matched and I sent the first message.
He replies by answering my questions but they seem so flat. He answers with haha at the end.
I ask majority of the questions. He asked me one question.
I'm just nervous that he's not interested.
How do I know if he's interested or not?
That way I can just stop making an effort.
He replies pretty fast though.
I just feel like he's being nice though.
Most Helpful Guy
It feels like he will put in the least effort possible to get to bang you. Your efforts are wasted in my opinion.1
Most Helpful Girl
If he's not trying to get to know you, then he probably isn't as interested as you want him to be in you. That's a red flag. A guy who is genuinely interested will ask questions and try to get to know you.
I have dated many guys who never try to get to know me and I end up being hurt because they don't see me as a permanent fixture in their life. They just see me as temporary.
in my opinion if a guy really likes you, then he will be asking more. Any guy can respond quickly to a message, it just means he wants to talk to you right now. But if he's actually trying to get to know you, it shows his true interest :)0