I've been through a lot in my past relationship with my daughter's father (he was abusive and on drugs, and has never helped me with anything). I since have been going to school and doing excellent,, working, and volunteering. I am hoping to go to a prestegious university soon, and I'm very intelligent. I have learned to love myself, and have learned a lot about what I want and don't want in my next relationship. Why is it that I have not been asked on a date in a long while? I am chubby, but I'm not sloppy fat, and I'm still cute. Is it because I am a mom? Or because I work and go to school both at school, and nobody has time for a relationship, or what? Are men really tbeing shallow, or what's going on?
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All three factors (physique, you being a mother, your work and school life) contribute to the fact that guys don't want to date you. And that's a good thing.
Because you really don't need those guys as they don't match your lifestyle neither do you match theirs. You shouldn't worry about guys trying to approach you, because when the day comes some guy will observe you, like you and ask you out. Or you could take the initiative and find out guys you're interested in and hope for the best. :)1