I was talking to this girl on Tinder, like most girls on there, she didn't seem to be the kind to hook-up. She's pretty cool and I can tell we're into a lot of the same things (music, movies, tvs, books, etc.). So after a couple of days of talking I did my usual "Hey, we should get a drink sometime" and she didn't respond the next time she logged in. So I was thinking she thought I only wanted sex because we would just be drinking, therefore I followed up with "... or get dinner somewhere or something" and then she replies with "Oh, that sounds nice! :)" and then I'm like "Alright, so dinner then?" then she does the thing were girls are too afraid to confront the situation, so she doesn't log in for an entire day and then eventually when she does she doesn't respond.
Why are girls like this? What are you so afraid of? I don't IMMEDIATELY ask to go on a date, but I'm not going to talk to you for a week through these stupid little things. I've had girls who I was getting along with just fine immediately block me for asking them to go on a date. I remember when I went out on a date with a girl we were talking about it and she was like "Don't you just get... you know, really nervous before you go like you don't want to meet?" We're just meeting each other in public for an hour, they act like it's some big job interview.
Most Helpful Girl
I had used tinder and I cancelled my account a week ago. I understand how girls feel but why to use tender if they don't want to go out. I always feel like I'm the bad girl because I met couple guys from tender and they told me the same thing. They said girls don't go out. They just keep chatting forever.1
Most Helpful Guy
Many girls just use it to boost their ego, because they're bored, or just to laugh at guys. I've had girls that were down to meet but when it came the day to meet up they either didn't respond or said they were lying about wanting to meet up.
Other girls are afraid they may get hurt by the guy.1