What do you think of someone who sleeps with you on the first date? ...
- I think we must get on well and be really into each other, I would happily have a relationship with them14% (5)57% (17)33% (22)Vote
- I think they are easy and therefore not a suitable long term partner17% (6)17% (5)17% (11)Vote
- If I knew them well before our first date I would just think they have been into me for a while and I would have a relationship with them but if I didn't know them beforehand I would think they are easy and therefore not a suitable long term partner39% (14)10% (3)26% (17)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy
If they slept with you on a first date, you also slept with them on a first date. People who say 'that person is therefore not worthy of dating' are basically calling themselves out as someone that is not worthy of dating.
Sex on a first date is usually not the best idea for figuring out how compatible you are with a person in a general sense, but sometimes things just happen and the flow seems right and in that particular instance, it just feels like the right, natural thing to do.
Things need to be taken in context. There are very few things that are an "always".0
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Most Helpful Girl
It depends. The problem is that you can't argue the fact that they may think you do it all the time because that's all they've experienced of you. I say if you feel like thats what you want to do then do it but keep in mind that it may make it harder for him to respect you. Everyone is different. In my experience it turned out to be a problem. He thought that I was more open about things like that and didn't understand why I tried acting like a "lady" lol What he didn't understand was that was the the first time I had ever rushed into something like that.0