I like this guy who's incredibly shy, and I'm usually super talkative. Do you think that dating someone who's personality is very different than yours can help you develop a better tolerance for others?
- I don't care about personality, I mostly focus on looks.Vote A
- Results/See answersVote B
- I would want to date someone with a very similar personality as meVote C
- I would date someone opposite my personalityVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Being talkative is not a problem, the real question is whether your core values and what you want in life are somewhat similar. There is a girl who lives in the same flat as me, I don't mind that she is social; but she is also into spiritualism and other crazy shit and her views are not negative but inherently sexist, we would rip each other apart and I am generally not interested whatsoever.
So I voted C), but it is not a question of shyness but what you enjoy and what you do and how you make your decisions and what you think and how you think about things.2
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend and I were opposites when we started dating. We've helped each other grow and get out of our comfort zones. Dating someone who's the complete opposite of your personality can make you a better person & has the potential to turn into something long term2