She is the first girl i asked out and i'am a rreally shy person. I known her for over a year and i thought we really had something going for us. She likes to tease me and at random times she touches me and just likes spending time with me.
When i asked her last night if she would go out with me, she said no and she said she see's me as a friend and that i'am a really nice guy but only see's me as a friend. Is that fact that i'm really nice the reason she said no? I always always make her laugh so I don't know what went wrong :( :(
I'm so sad and could not sleep at night. I never had my heart broken like this.
Most Helpful Girl
No. She's just not attracted to you romantically. You can't "make" someone fall for you just by being nice and making them laugh. If it was that easy then none of us would be single. I understand you're sad and I'm sorry for this but just realize she's not the girl for you even if you thought she was. We have to go through rejections and hurt sometimes to get to the right guy or girl for us.0
Most Helpful Guy
Good first step.
Now get the fuck over it and ask out more women.
Get used to rejection. Get used to things not always going your way. That's life, and you either avoid it like a coward or embrace it with courage.
Get yourself to the point where you ask out ten women per day and don't give a fuck whether they say yes or no.0