I've noticed a trend of guys talking to me for a few days and then disappearing for upwards of a week sometimes, then reappearing. This happens especially if we have hung out. Why is this?
Why do guys disappear for a few days?
What Guys Said 16
perhaps they got busy1
As guys, our bodies secrete a substance called tsugilrium which causes us to phase in and out of reality temporarily. This can get somewhat annoying since we might miss out on important events in our lives, but on the other hand, some guys report coming back from oblivion with some eldritch knowledge.
Or they got busy with other stuff, I'm pretty sure its one of those two things.0
I'm guilty of that too but I'm not the type to go out everyday and constantly be around people for long hours cause I wanna be alone sometimes. Plus everyday life like work, school, etc.0
1. We get bored.
2. We back off because we have learned the hard way maintaining constant contact kills female interest fast
3. We found someone else, but we don't think they will work out, so we wish to keep the lines of communication open.1
Probably figured you weren't interested in him so they decided to back off.0
Yeah we enjoy space.0
It happens with me and women also. Either they want to just have sex with you and see you're not wanting to have a one night stand. or if theyre looking for a relationship you might not be the right fit.0
It's called the hunt season. ... u have to know what the hunt season is..0
Trying not to be clingy. My natural urge is to text her nonstop so i fight that, and then it turns into phone anxiety.0
I can only suggest three reasons: A) the guy is immature B) the guy is a player C) the amount of guys you have dated, etc. is too small a sample to conclude this. I personally never did any of that, and I know a lot of guys who didn't either, but I also know a player or two who did.0
What Girls Said 4
They probably do it to not come off as desperate or clingy. You could just call them out on it, it would throw them off lol.1
they might want you to think about them or they expect you to make the next move and call them1
because they are busy or they are convince that they look desperate or clingy!0
busy. or game players trying to seem cooler than they really are to reel you in. if you realize he's a game player, right him off immediately. safe yourself the drama.0