So I met this girl on this online dating website and we really hit it off.
After quite a few messages and both wanting to meet up, she sent "Ha! I'm sure I can handle that ;) so this may be very forward, but can we text instead of this I'm leaving my house for the week and there's no wifi where I'm going! *inserts mobile number* :)"
So I text her later on that night (using an inside joke), "Hey, it's mr bean here. Are you sure you can handle texting? It's a bit forward.. ;)"
And I get a strange and serious reply at 1am saying "Ha how cheeky! I didn't want you to think I was being creepy! Plus technically, that means I made the first move which is not good!"
I'm not sure if I've blown it, but I don't get why she didn't think that I made a move because last weekend I told her that I'd like to take her out on the Thursday coming up. Her reply seems annoyed, just want to get your impressions.
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Well... looks like she just wants someone to text, and is not really interested in dating you. It sucks I know, but all evidence points to that. I wouldn't say you 'blew' the chance, because it doesn't look like you've had too much of a chance the first place. She had probably decided earlier that she'll only text, and not date you.0