Normal 26 year olds do not have 14 year old girlfriends. There is something wrong with him, and he is probably hiding even worse things. And really... a kiss? That proves nothing except that he is preying on a young girl. And he has probably done this with other girls and he likely will get worse.
It may be hard for you to do what I am telling you now, but you really need to show your parents anything he has sent you. And if he is talking to you some other way, tell them about it. This is a time you really need to talk with your parents and let them protect you, because this guy is NOT your friend and can hurt you very badly. So talk to your parents right away!
Wow. Okay I was in a similar situation as you were in last year. A guy who was twenty-one approached me online when I was fifteen about to turn sixteen. (Facebook) Odd correct? Why would a grown man go after someone who isn't in his age range? Grown men are normally established in life by having a job, a car, a degree, etc... What would induce him to go after someone who hasn't reached their full potential? Teenagers don't have the mental maturity... No the common sense to understand how dangerous this situation is. The man who was communicating with me made it fairly obvious he found me "sexually" appealing but that's skin-deep and illegal. I later did some research on him since he lives in my hometown and found out unsurprisingly, he was not a good person. Be weary, be extremely careful when you encounter these situations. That man I mentioned before almost had me in his web thank god I mentioned it to my parents because I was uncomfortable. I knew something was amiss and boy, was I right. I don't trust anyone from adam on the internet because it's not safe to. Please be careful, some of these men are extremely convincing. Keep your wits about you.
Say to this guy right off the bat, but also tell him you will only say it once, "what the heck are you doing trying this approach on a 14 year old girl, I am just starting to blossom and discover the world in witch I live in, maybe come and see me in about 20 years from now, no better still do not try that even then.. I will now have bad dreams for that many years"... have a nice life... then just walk away
Do not talk to him at all. What he's doing is called grooming. It's what sexual predators do to convince young children that they're "good people" so they can take advantage of them. This guy knows that it's highly unacceptable and he could never actually have a 14 year old girlfriend without drawing attention from police and other authorities, he's just filling your head with fantasies to get you someplace he can have sex with you.
Please, stop *ANY* contact to him and immediately, no matter how good having a guy that age be interested you. Also, immediately tell your mom, and/or you dad, or both!! It could be very dangerous and it is very illegal in most parts of the world.
Age is just a number sometime but 14 is too young. There are many successful relations bw 10 to 12 years of age gap. If he really love you he would avoid sex or physical but if he is using you then he try to take advantages.
Honestly, if he has a bad reputation I am telling you to get away from him, but love is love and if you love him back, I say you give it a shot, just think about it, don't stress though, if you know that guy really really well and you know that he's an amazing, lovely, sweet guy I say go for it, but if you don't really know that guy, you might end up hurt and he's probably just saying that to get into your pants of some crap like that, just be careful babe. <3 good luck
Cut off all communication with this guy because this is not normal behaviour. This is predator behaviour! You're only 14, there are plenty of boys your own age you should be talking to rather than grown men.
A kiss means nothing. Right now you're naive , so you probably believe him. Only a pervert would say something like that. He is sick in the head and you need to stay away from him. A guy will tell you anything just get in your pants. I hope you take heed because this story does not have a happy ending.
he just wants your body don't pursue a relationship